"My Husband's Lover is filled with symbolism"
My Husband’s Lover is a breath of fresh air in the often
stale and boorish telenovelas of the last two decades. Never has
Philippine television engaged viewers in a unique love triangle—a
married man caught between his loving wife and his openly gay lover.
Although we may be modern users of the Internet and cell phones—by the
way, devices integral to
MHL—our level of tolerance for
stories on the boob tube is always limited to heterosexual relationships
and issues. Gays may be part of a TV drama series but they are never
the lead characters. They are always the comic relief or the best friend
in a supporting role.
In
My Husband’s Lover, the gay characters and the wife are
the protagonists. Carla Abellana essays her biggest role ever on TV as
the clueless wife, Lally Agatep-Soriano. Tom Rodriguez plays Vincent
Soriano, Lally’s husband who is a closet gay still pining for his high
school lover Eric Del Mundo (Dennis Trillo).
Director Dominic Zapata gives a fresh take on issues that
conservatives would rather sweep under the rug such as homosexuality,
infidelity and extended family dynamics. Suzette Doctolero’s
story/script faces the issues head-on without resorting to histrionics
and uber melodramatic monologues.
The story unfolds initially from Lally’s point of view. But the
conflict revolves around Vincent’s denial of his true gender identity
and its repercussions once he gives in to his secret desires.
ENSEMBLE ACTING. Dennis Trillo is very effective as
the openly-gay architect still in love with his best friend. His body
language, its nuances and gestures, mark him not only as an actor but as
a true artist. Handsome, bedimpled Tom Rodriguez is a revelation—he can
act after all! You can feel Vincent’s pain, confusion and inner
struggles all at the same time, without his uttering a single word.
Through the lead actors’ rapport, the chemistry between Vincent and
Eric is palpable. When they gaze at each other and hold hands you can
feel the love emanating from them. In spite of Vincent being a family
man, we can’t help rooting for the lovers whose emotions are genuine and
pure. Romantic strings tug at the heart each time they meet,
accidentally hold hands, gaze into each other’s eyes.
Their intimate scenes are performed with utmost care and decency. You
can feel their yearning for each other without bed scenes, indecent
exposure or torrid kissing scenes. Dennis and Tom, aside from being good
actors, are pleasant to the eyes as well, making their characters even
more appealing.
On the other hand, you also feel for the wife. She is a victim here.
Her marriage is a sham; she’s clueless about her husband being gay.
Carla Abellana is brilliant in her role. As the naïve wife and obedient
daughter-in-law, she seamlessly fits into the role. Her acting is
subdued throughout the series, even when she catches her husband with
his gay lover. Her eyes speak volumes of her pent-up frustration and
resentment.
To our surprise, Kuh Ledesma (Elaine Soriano) and Roi Vinzon (Armando
Soriano) have chemistry, too. Elaine may be your typical “halimaw na
biyenan” but she still empathizes with Lally. She does not tolerate
Vincent coming home late and forgetting his marital duties. Her
character is real, not one-dimensional.
As Vincent’s homophobic dad, Roi plays his role to the hilt, yet
Armando’s bantering with his wife and other family members lightens the
story. Armando is hateful and charming at the same time.
Chanda Romero as the visual artist Sinag Del Mundo is the
compassionate yet down-to-earth mother of Eric. Sinag represents modern
parental values laced with social norms and mores. In Freud’s
psychosexual theory of development, she is the super ego, the
conscience. She accepts her son unconditionally but she intervenes and
never fails to mince words when telling him off for his affair with a
married closet gay.
Eric’s BFF Danny (Kevin Santos) and Vince’s friend/former lover David
(Victor Basa), though gay themselves, do not tolerate the Eric-Vince
shenanigans. The Soriano kids Diego (Antone Limgenco) and Hannah (Elijah
Alejo), always cute and adorable, complete the picture of a “happy”
family, making you want to shield them from pain.
PRODUCTION. Editing is fast-paced, gritty and
innovative in this TV series. No dull moment. Not a second wasted.
Flashbacks and present action are frequently interspersed, making the
story more dynamic and reinforcing character development.
Visually,
My Husband’s Lover is appealing to the eyes.
Camera angles lure the viewers into the deepest emotions of the
characters without overpowering them. Transition shots blend one scene
with the next smoothly. The Soriano mansion may be everyone’s dream, but
for Lally, particularly in the first few weeks of married life, it is a
gilded cage.
Initially, the downside of the show was the music. Kuh Ledesma’s “One
More Try” drowned out every dramatic scene, being played during opening
and closing credits and every scene in between, much to the chagrin of
viewers like me. This is saying a lot because I’m an avid Kuh Ledesma
fan.
But netizens were able to send their message across; during the last
two weeks of the show the musical scoring was more subtle. It even now
has Jonalyn Viray’s “Help Me Get Over” which alternates with Kuh’s song
and makes the scenes more poignant. Music is now used effectively, as in
the breakup scene of Eric and Vincent, heightening emotions so that you
almost feel your own heart break.
Symbols and metaphors are significant in
My Husband’s Lover.
For instance, the rain pouring heavily during Vincent and Lally’s
wedding seems a pouring of blessings; metaphorically, it forecasts the
heartaches and trials that would befall the marriage.
Lally’s suspicion that her husband has a mistress ends with a key
that opens a Pandora’s box of lies and deceptions far worse than she
ever thought. Her shoe that falls as she lies unconscious in shock
evokes the Cinderella fairy tale, but for her there’s no happy ending in
store. As for the lovers, the wine glass that Eric drops when Vincent
breaks up with him, lacerating his feet as it shatters, symbolizes their
world gone to pieces.
Kudos to team
MHL and GMA-7 for coming up with a series that
encourages viewers to question their belief system and core values. To
say that I love this show is an understatement. It is one of the best
TV shows in 2013.
Dennis Trillo and Tom Rodriguez play gay lovers in the upcoming TV series"My Husband's Lover" this June 2013.
I'm effin' excited for this! Woot! Kudos to GMA-7 for putting up this upcoming soap! I'll buy this on DVD if it comes out!
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